HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT RING SIZE WITHOUT SPOILING THE SURPRISE

How to Choose the Right Ring Size Without Spoiling the Surprise

How to Choose the Right Ring Size Without Spoiling the Surprise

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Planning a surprise proposal is one of life’s most thrilling moments—but one tricky detail often looms: getting the ring size right. A perfect ring that doesn’t fit can take the shine off the big moment. Thankfully, there are clever ways to determine your partner’s ring size discreetly and confidently.

At Carat Sage, we’ve helped countless clients pull off surprise proposals with perfectly fitted rings. Here’s how to find the right size without giving away the plan.

What Are the Best Sneaky Ways to Find Their Ring Size?


If you want the proposal to remain a total surprise, you’ll need a bit of detective work. Here are some tried-and-tested tactics that work without raising suspicion:

Borrow a ring:



  • Steal (briefly!) a ring your partner wears on their ring finger (left hand if possible).

  • Bring it to Carat Sage or a local jeweller to have it measured accurately.


Trace or imprint:



  • If borrowing isn’t an option, trace the inside and outside of their ring on paper.

  • Alternatively, press the ring into soap or clay to create an imprint.


Enlist a friend:



  • Ask a trusted friend or sibling to casually get the size during a shopping trip.

  • Friends can also try on rings and compare sizes with your partner as a fun game.


These methods can give you a reliable estimate. Keep in mind that the dominant hand often has slightly larger fingers, so adjust accordingly.

What If You Guess Incorrectly? Can the Ring Be Resized?


The good news: most rings can be resized. At Carat Sage, we offer resizing services for many of our engagement rings, particularly those made with durable metals and classic designs.

Resizing tips:



  • Up or down: Most rings can be resized 1–2 sizes in either direction.

  • Design factors: Bands with intricate designs or pavé settings may require special adjustments.

  • Lead time: Allow a few days to a week for professional resizing.


If you’re worried about precision, choose a slightly larger size so it can comfortably slide on during the proposal and be adjusted later. Our contact page is the best way to reach out for resizing advice or post-proposal support.

Are There Universal Sizing Tools You Can Use?


Yes, there are tools that can give you a ballpark ring size discreetly. Many are available online or through jewellers like Carat Sage.

Options include:



  • Printable ring size charts: Match an existing ring to pre-measured circles.

  • Adjustable ring sizers: These plastic tools slip on the finger like a zip tie.

  • String or paper strip method: Measure the finger circumference and compare to a sizing guide.


Visit our education section to learn more about how ring sizing works and what tools are most accurate.

Keep in mind that climate, time of day, and even salt intake can affect finger size, so measure when hands are at room temperature and not swollen.

What Are the Most Flexible Ring Designs for Resizing?


If you’re unsure about the size, choose a style that’s easier to adjust. Simple bands and solitaire settings tend to be the most adaptable.

Resizing-friendly styles:



  • Plain metal bands: Easy to resize with minimal effort.

  • Solitaire rings: Offer clean lines with no side stones to disrupt.

  • Open or adjustable bands: Some modern rings are designed with flexibility in mind.


Avoid eternity bands or highly intricate designs if you’re unsure of the size—they’re harder (and sometimes impossible) to resize.

When in doubt, consider a temporary proposal setting. At Carat Sage, we can create a placeholder ring to use during the proposal and later design the final piece together through our customisation service.



Getting the ring size right doesn’t have to ruin your surprise. With a little planning, some sneaky tactics, and expert support, you can create a seamless proposal moment your partner will treasure forever.

Explore Carat Sage’s engagement rings, learn more from our education section, or get in touch through our contact page for sizing support and proposal tips.

Because when it comes to love, every detail counts—including the perfect fit.

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